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#Book Review: Why We Can’t Sleep- Women’s New Midlife Crisis by Ada Calhoun @NetGalley #ReviewAThon

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Why We Can’t Sleep- Women’s New Midlife Crisis by Ada Calhoun helped to ease my worries regarding my own advancing age.

NetGalley is hosting a “Review A Thon,” throughout the entire month of August. Net Galley is a great website that provides free advanced reader copies to bloggers and readers in exchange for an honest review. I love books and I also enjoy saving money, so Net Galley is perfect for me.

I enjoy reading as a form of self care. Curling up with a good book is a form of stress relief for me. Sometimes I share book reviews here on my website, but throughout the month of August, I will be sharing even more book reviews than normal as I work my way through my massive “To Be Read,” pile on Net Galley.

What are you reading? Let me know in the comments below!

 My Review for Why We Can’t Sleep by Ada Clahoun 

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Why We Can’t Sleep by Ada Calhoun tackles the questions that keep us awake at night. She addresses the challenges and issues that many women face during middle age from an empathetic and scholarly perspective that is both enjoyable and educational for the casual reader. According to Calhoun, the burden of choice that women now face is both liberating and deeply troubling. We are not alone when we  look back on our lives and wonder: “Did I marry the right person?” “Did I choose the right career?” “Should I have had children?”  “Should I have went back to school?”

I’m getting older (aren’t we all?) and I fall into that strange generation that is “not quite” Gen X and “not quite” millennial. Unlike many millenials, I remember the sound of dial up internet and I didn’t learn to use a smart phone until I was in grad school. However, unlike Generation X, I don’t remember the Cold War and I was only a year old when the Berlin Wall fell. While this book technically focuses on Gen X women, I still found a great deal I could relate to as an “elder millenial.

Sometimes, I feel like a stranger in a strange land. it seems so odd to me that there is an entire generation of people, some of them of voting age, who can’t remember the attacks of September 11th. To those people, the tragic events of that day seem as distant as the  attacks on Pearl Harbor seem to me- something we have only heard about in stories, history books, and documentaries.

I look around and wonder, “How did we get here?” According to Calhoun, such existential questions are common ones for women approaching middle age. While men have midlife crises that involve sports cars and large outward signs of struggle, women tend to quietly agonize over their life choices. I was glad to know that I was not alone with my thoughts and concerns.

Calhoun’s book is filled with statistics and interviews. Although I became a bit bogged down with all the numbers, I was comforted by the book’s enduring message of the strength of women. As each year brings me closer to midlife, I am glad to know that I am not alone with my existential angst.

I recommend this book for any other woman (especially in the Gen X generation) who finds herself lying awake at night struggling with questions related to aging and self worth. Why We Can’t Sleep is an affirmation to women of all ages- young, middle-aged, and advanced and years- that our struggles are real. But nevertheless, we are resilient.

Note: I received a free copy of this book from Net Galley in exchange for an honest review. My thoughts and options are my own. 

Publisher’s Description:

Book Details

Title: Why We Can’t Sleep- Women’s New Midlife Crisis 

Author: Ada Calhoun

Genre: Nonfiction/ Sociology & Psychology/ Cultural Study

Publisher:Grove Atlantic/ Grove Press

Publication Date: January 7, 2020

Pre-order your copy on Amazon! 

 

 

Other Review-A-Thon Book Reviews:

Horse Crazy- A sociological exploration of why we love horses and how their love shapes us

A History of Art in 21 Cats – The purr-fect book to learn about art history!

The Particular Charm of Miss Jane Austen is a delightful read for fans of Jane Auten’s novels.

 

 

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